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Free Attachment Style Quiz: Discover Your Relationship Pattern

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Wondering why you feel anxious in relationships, pull away when things get close, or crave reassurance from your partner?  Your attachment style shapes how you connect with others, and understanding it can be incredibly empowering.  This free 10-question Attachment Style Quiz helps you discover whether you lean toward Secure, Anxious, Avoidant, or Fearful-Avoidant patterns. It is quick, completely anonymous, and designed for self-reflection and awareness.

 Disclaimer

This free quiz is an educational self-assessment based on adult attachment theory. It is NOT a clinical diagnosis and cannot replace professional therapy or evaluation. Attachment styles can change over time with awareness and support.

What Your Score Means

Your total score is out of 40 points.

0 – 12 points: Secure Attachment  

  You feel comfortable with intimacy and independence.

13 – 22 points: Anxious Attachment  

  You often seek reassurance and fear abandonment.

23 – 32 points: Avoidant Attachment  

  You value independence and may struggle with closeness.

33 – 40 points: Fearful-Avoidant Attachment  

  You desire connection but also fear it, often feeling conflicted.

Ready? You can start taking the quiz now.

Welcome to your Free Attachment Style Quiz: Discover Your Relationship Pattern

1. I often worry that my partner doesn’t really love me or will leave me.

2. I find it easy to get close to others and feel comfortable depending on them.

3. I prefer to keep my distance and not get too emotionally close in relationships.

4. I worry a lot about being abandoned or rejected by people I care about.

5. I feel comfortable both depending on others and having them depend on me.

6. I often feel uncomfortable when others get too close to me.

7. I need a lot of reassurance that my partner still cares about me.

8. I find it difficult to trust others completely in relationships.

9. I am generally happy with my close relationships and feel secure in them.

10. I sometimes feel that people are trying to get too close to me too quickly.